A lot of courses on how to get your ex back will tell you about the 30 day method. Wait 30 days so their anger and hurt has died down, then begin to try to woo them back. Sometimes this is a good strategy, but oftentimes it doesn’t work, because in a month your ex may have moved on.
Is there really a way to get your ex back in one day? 24 hours from now? Can it be done? In many cases it can.
How can you get your ex back in one day? Well, it depends on why you split up. Usually there are one of three reasons. You wronged your mate, they wronged you, or they lost interest in you. Each reason for breaking up requires a different strategy to get your ex back, but each of the above reasons can often be repaired in a day. It doesnt usually take months.
Lets say you wronged your mate by cheating on them. They kicked you out last week. They were furious and hurt. They swore they could never trust you again. Can this really be repaired in one day?
Many times, yes, it can. What you need to do is to have a certain kind of conversation with them that takes about ten minutes. In this conversation, you dont apologize, at least not right away. Saying Im sorry til youre blue in the face doesnt work, as your probably already know.
What you need to do is follow three specific steps before you apologize. These steps can be characterized as owning up to what you did, acknowledging the hurt you caused, and then listening to how they feel about it.
The main technique to getting your ex back in one day rather than waiting weeks or months involves you becoming a good listener. The emotional logic is that your ex has a heart filled with hurt and betrayal. You have to help them to release those hurt and negative feelings. Using some basic emotional intelligence you can actually help your ex release the bad feelings so they can move towards forgiveness and loving you once more.
Listening in the right way using some basic emotional skills takes only a few minutes, but in those few minutes you can help them have a healing in their heart. You can actually help them to release their hate and move back towards love in a short conversation. And that is the key to starting a process that can begin to repair even major love damage in hours rather than months. There is much more detail to this, but using some easily learned emotional intelligence you can help your mate to heal the damage and move back towards loving you in a remarkably short period of time.
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